Introduction: A Life-Changing Skill That Must Be Learned -- Part One: Where Are We Now? -- Imagine a World -- Seven Reasons We Can't Deal with Our Feelings -- Part Two: Definitions -- What Is Emotion Regulation? -- What Is Co-Regulation -- Part Three: Building Blocks -- The Hidden Driver of Regulation: Your Beliefs About Emotion -- From Chaos to Clarity: Labeling Your Emotions Precisely -- Part Four: Strategies -- Quieting Your Mind and Body -- Redirecting Your Thoughts -- Cultivating Your Emotional Strength Through Relationships -- Optimizing Your Emotion Regulation Budget -- Part Five: Practice Makes Permanent -- How Children Learn to Regulate Emotions -- Becoming the Best Version of Yourself -- Epilogue: A Vision Realized.